One of the things that annoys me the most about being quoigender is that I can't actually be as ???gender??? as I'd like in everyday life. I can wear women's clothes or men's clothes or even androgynous clothes but I can't… not look like anything. I can't do the equivalent of an anonymous profile picture … Continue reading clothes


Queerbaiting as a grey-romantic ace writer

Sometimes I think about the possibility that one day someone will tell me that I keep writing these very deep and involved romances between people of the same gender but never actually confirming it or showing it through anything even slightly explicit, like a kiss, or a very definite declaration of romantic love, and how … Continue reading Queerbaiting as a grey-romantic ace writer